Oh mate... are you kidding me? She is on the game. Have you ever heard
anyone say this? What exactly does that mean, “On the game?” Well, in short it means that the girl in question is a complete player and you are only a target of her game devised to bilk you out of as much money as she can get before you finally catch on and break it off with her. Of course, you aren’t the only one and many of these girls are working over several men at the same time. It has almost become a kind of sport in the bar scene in Thailand
and there are more than enough unsuspecting men traveling to Thailand who are completely unaware of it and fall victim to the game. We see it every day and it happens more and more often in recent times. It is of epidemic proportions.
Does this mean all Thai ladies who work in bars are dirty rotten scammers? Of course not, and in fact, some of the girls who work in bars are very good girls who just don’t really have much of a choice
and join up on the bar scene for a short period of time in order to make some money to help take care of family. The problem arises when they spend too much time in the bar and greed and the influence of hardened bar girls takes them over, then you have a problem. Of course, in most cases you aren’t going to find the girl of your dreams working in a go go bar, but there have been many success stories of guys who have met girls in bars and ended up getting married, starting
families and living happy lives, it’s just that we don’t often hear of that too often these days as we had in the past, times have changed and so has the attitude of many Thai girls who work in bars.
Thai society has gone very materialistic in recent years and the number one source for easy money seems to be in finding a farang (foreigner) to foot the bill for all those expensive things many of today’s Thai people find so important.
The newest i-phone, Gucci bag, gaudy gold necklaces, and etc. There are countless cases of men being ripped off by dodgy Thai women and we have seen so many instances of it, but this is what happens if you decide to try and find a meaningful relationship with a Thai prostitute who may in fact be a drug addict or just straight up scammer looking to find as much money as she can from as many sources as possible. We have seen cases where a Thai woman had numerous boyfriends, was
engaged to more than one man at the same time, and even a few cases where the Thai woman was married to more than one foreign man at the same time with different identities and passports.
So, what can you do? First of all, don’t go looking for a sweet and innocent Thai lady in a go go bar because chances are you aren’t going to find her. If you are fascinated with Thai women and want to meet a good Thai lady, try going to regular bars
or clubs where normal Thais go, only remember, you will be much better off if you have a Thai friend who can go with you and act as your liaison between other Thai people, and especially good Thai ladies, of which there are many! Just don’t ogle and act like a sex tourist because you will get nowhere. Pubs are a good place to start as there are many Thai women who are fascinated with foreign men and they might go to a good pub to mingle with westerners.
So, how do you know if you have met a good Thai lady or not? Here are some general tips.
Positive signs the Thai woman you met may be okay:
- Met in a pub popular with Thai people, restaurant, museum, shopping mall, city park, fitness center, through business contacts, etc.
- Doesn’t ask you for money, or mention any “problems” right off the bat.
- Comes from a good Thai family.
- Has a regular job and is college educated.
- Didn’t meet her in a go go bar, beer bar, or disco known to be frequented by freelance prostitutes.
- Doesn’t go to bars and pubs except for the occasional night out.
Warning signs that point to a Thai woman who may turn out to be a real problem:
- Met in a go go bar, disco (Lucifer, CM2, Marine, Spice, Boss) outdoor beer bar, or Soi 7 beer garden.
- Starts mentioning “problems she has” within the first few hours or days of meeting her.
- Has a lot of nice clothes, jewelry, gold, expensive top of the line phone, but has no regular job.
- Is out in a disco at 4:00 AM on a weeknight.
Asks you for money if you have sex.
- Works in a beer bar, go go bar, strip club, or hangs out in the wee hours of the morning at discos.
- Seems to be a heavy drinker
There are many reasons why you might consider hiring a Thailand Private Investigator to investigate your Thai lady/girlfriend and we are usually able to help in almost any circumstance as long as it doesn’t involve any criminal activity or is meant to harm another person in a physical manner. If you suspect your Thai girlfriend is up to no good and you want to get revenge on her and ask us for help, you won’t get it. However, if you are having problems with your Thai lady that concern you and you think something may be going on that isn’t okay with you, and she isn’t being forthcoming or cooperative, please feel free to contact us and let us help you discover the truth of the matter so you can decide what you want to do.
In recent years we have had a large increase in cases involving western women whose husbands are over here in Thailand frolicking around with go go bar girls and prostitutes. Not only is it going against your wedding vows, but it is also a very dangerous activity that could have serious health risk in the form of sexually transmitted diseases that can be a risk to the family as well as the husband. If you are a woman from a western country and
you have been made aware what goes on in Thailand in the many go go bars and nightlife establishments there are here and you are worried that your husband, boyfriend, or fiancée may be having an affair with a Thai woman or a Thai bar girl or prostitute, please contact us and we will investigate the matter for you in a discreet and professional manner. The fact is, we see it everyday and it is staggering just how many married men we see with bar girls and prostitutes who didn’t
even have the presence of mind to remove their wedding ring. If you suspect your husband may be doing something like this, contact us and we’ll get the facts for you. The truth is out there!
If you have any other legitimate concern and need to hire a Thailand Private Investigator to assist you, please feel free to contact us at any time with your Thailand private investigation inquiry and we will do our very best to help you resolve the matter with a fact based investigation designed to help you know the truth, based on the facts provided.
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